Henry Miller on Friendship and the Relationship Between Creativity and Community

“To have a pal who understands and appreciates your work, one who by no means allows you to down however who turns into extra devoted, extra reverent, because the years go by, that may be a uncommon expertise.”


Henry Miller on Friendship and the Relationship Between Creativity and Community

The sunshine of life springs from twin suns. We could name them love and artwork. We could name them connection and creativity. Each can take many varieties. Each, if they’re price their salt and we ours, ask us to indicate up as our complete selves. Each are devices of unselfing.

It’s typically within the cradle of friendship — a phrase not for use carelessly — that our inventive energies are strengthened and renewed. Via its tendrils, we discover group — a spot the place our personal inventive work is mirrored and refracted by that of others to forged a shimmering radiance of mutual magnification that borders on magic.

Artwork by Arthur Rackham for Peter Pan in Kensington Gardens, 1906. (Obtainable as a print and as stationery playing cards.)

This important relationship between creativity and connection has been tensed and twisted within the period of Instagram, Twitter, and Fb, the place self-marketing so readily masquerades as “pal”-ship.

In 1950, epochs earlier than our social media have been however a glimmer within the eye of the attainable, Henry Miller (December 26, 1891–June 7, 1980) reckoned with the seedling of our fashionable predicament in his meditation on artwork and life. Contemplating the downfall of artwork in his personal epoch, when the age of publicity and mass media was simply starting to maim tradition, he laments the state of the inventive group:

No communication. No actual intercommunication. No concern for the important, refined issues which imply every thing to a author, painter or musician. We dwell in a void spanned by essentially the most intricate and elaborate technique of communication. Each occupies a planet to himself. However the messages by no means get by.

After honing his concepts on twenty years of residing, Miller took up the topic once more in his uncommonly fantastic 1968 guide To Paint Is to Love Once more. In a passage simply as hauntingly true of the compulsion for social media “likes,” he writes:

How distressing it’s to listen to younger painters speaking about sellers, reveals, newspaper evaluations, wealthy patrons, and so forth. All that comes with time — or won’t ever come. However first one should make mates, create them by one’s work.

Henry Miller: The Hat and the Man from To Paint Is to Love Once more.

This mutually sustaining circle of inventive kinship begins with a single lifeline of connection. These of us who’re fortunate to have it in our personal lives can simply determine it, at all times with a swell of gratitude. Miller writes:

Often the artist has two life-long companions, neither of his personal selecting… — poverty and loneliness. To have a pal who understands and appreciates your work, one who by no means allows you to down however who turns into extra devoted, extra reverent, because the years go by, that may be a uncommon expertise. It takes just one pal… to work miracles.

Complement with David Whyte on the deepest that means of friendship, Kahlil Gibran on the constructing blocks of significant connection, and this virtually unbearably pretty classic illustrated ode to friendship, then revisit Henry Miller on the measure of a life nicely lived and the worth of and antidote to despair.


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